how to be happy with what you do have rather than what you don't?

for example what I want vs what I have:

Want:

children

to stay home and be a mom

a warm home with a big kitchen

to feel fufilled

a tiny hand in mine

Have:

dogs

boyfriend

family who loves me

job

house

is there anything wrong with what I have? no. i am very grateful, i have been blessed. i have also neglected myself. i have taken what could have been and made it into it's never going to happen.

i have created what I do/don't have thus far. i have made mistakes i may never be able to right again.

i am not giving up.